How to Develop Unshakable Confidence On Women and Other Them
When you think about it, this question is really impossible to answer. First, you have to find a way to put the question into context. For example, is the question whether or not you are confident in your ability to drive a car?
What about in your ability to eat without getting food all over yourself? Your ability to walk? Your ability to talk?
How confident are you in your ability to do the one thing that you are best at and the most interested in? This one thing could be a hobby, your career, or something that you just do for fun. Nevertheless, everyone has at least a handful of things that they are completely confident in.
But you know what? Allof these things that you are now confident in were once extremely difficult for you. So how did you build confidence in your ability to do them?
You practiced, you failed, you learned from your failures and you reapplied yourself to practice. You didn't sit by and say: "I can't learn to do this because I might fail, or someone might laugh at me." You didn't care if you failed or if people laughed at you, neither did you allow these things to effect the value that you put on yourself as a human being. Instead, you were absolutely committed to learning to walk or to drive or to talk or to do whatever it is that you now do very well.
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